I've got many of those, my Dad, Uncles friends.
Yesterday I was with one of my advisors whose has been through a lot.
Advisor: "Do you take Okro soup?"
Advisor: "When I was very poor, a priest advised me against it".
Advisor was not supposed to eat okro if he hoped to be rich at all.
Advisor: "But when I go out to eat, I see people eating Okro soup with large pieces of meat, and I couldn't afford meat".
Advisor is a very rich man now, he takes a lot of Okro soup when he feels like.